{"id":1687,"date":"2012-01-04T09:46:57","date_gmt":"2012-01-04T17:46:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/?p=1687"},"modified":"2012-01-04T09:46:57","modified_gmt":"2012-01-04T17:46:57","slug":"a-wish-for-less-list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/2012\/01\/04\/a-wish-for-less-list\/","title":{"rendered":"A Wish for Less List"},"content":{"rendered":"<h6><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Dis-Wishes.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1691\" title=\"Dis-Wishes\" src=\"http:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Dis-Wishes.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"115\" height=\"156\" \/><\/a><\/h6>\n<p>On January 1st I referred to last year&#8217;s (and now this year&#8217;s) resolutions. It was a list of qualities I could wish for more of. But I could just as well come up with another I&#8217;d like less of. I could call it my non-wish, or unwish, or antiwish list. It&#8217;d be made of us stuff I tend to have but would be better off with less of.\u00a0If it was only that easy I could just\u00a0<em>name it and disclaim it!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Or take the stuff that\u00a0sullies and put it in my dis-wisher.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone&#8217;s list would be different but a few suggested options for me would be:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Poverty of spirit<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Poverty of any kind<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Underconfidence<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Overconfidence<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Preoccupation with self<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Preoccupation with anything<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Considering the old days were better<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Considering the old days were failures<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Any ingratitude<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Any entitlement<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>General inattention<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mental myopia<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Insensitivity<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dullness of mind<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dullness of any kind<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tomfoolery<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dick and Janefoolery<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Insertmyownnamefoolery<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I could go on, and so could you. (Feel free to comment.)<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s another that could summarize the whole thing. I heard it a few months ago at a funeral of a man who had been our pastor in the early years of our spiritual development. His teaching and example always held a place of honor with me. At the funeral, a distant niece of his had mailed over a personal eulogy which was read aloud. In it she enumerated a long list of his qualities, all of which were right and true, but one, buried in the list, stood out with me particularly: \u201cHe was never small.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Never small!<\/p>\n<p>What a wonderful thing to have said about you, even when you&#8217;re dead. Better when you&#8217;re still alive.<\/p>\n<p>So I add it to the list.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Smallness<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Smallness of thinking<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Smallness of any kind<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In this inner game of baseball, these are the balls not to swing at.<\/p>\n<p>Why strike out needlessly?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Next: Thoughts on a life-long poem, coming Friday.<\/p>\n<p>PS Haven\u2019t subscribed? You can do so with a quick click in the right column and never miss.<\/p>\n<p>And feel free to share with a friend.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Speaking of New Year&#8217;s resolutions, here&#8217;s an anti-list . . . a list of &#8220;want nots.&#8221;  The the grand scheme of things, that&#8217;s as important as the wants.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1687"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1687"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1687\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1707,"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1687\/revisions\/1707"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1687"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1687"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hyattmoore.com\/blank-slate\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1687"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}